Your desire shall be for your husband And he shall rule over you.

Your desire shall be for your husband And he shall rule over you.
 
This is a point of scripture that has and is being avoided. And is the root trouble between man and woman. Many will not like or accept; however it is His Word and stands. We must choose to accept it and salvation or not.
 
For God has established His rule of order for man and woman to live by.
 
1 Corinthians 11:1-3 NKJV Imitate me, just as I also imitate Christ. Now I praise you, brethren, that you remember me in all things and keep the traditions just as I delivered them to you.
 
But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.
 
However we must not over look two important facts.
 
First, separate from anything of man’s society etc. it is always the Will of God that has, is, and will be determining how things play out.
Second, is the fact that fall from grace in the garden and the curses of that will always be with us in the flesh.
 
Now let us look at the Word;
 
Genesis 3:5-6 NKJV — “For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”
 
So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes,
and a tree desirable to make one wise,
 
she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate. Genesis 3:16-19 NKJV — To the woman He said: “I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception; In pain you shall bring forth children;
 
Your desire shall be for your husband, And he shall rule over you.”
 
Then to Adam He said, “Because you have heeded the voice of your wife, and have eaten from the tree of which I commanded you, saying, ‘You shall not eat of it’:
“Cursed is the ground for your sake; In toil you shall eat of it All the days of your life. Both thorns and thistles it shall bring forth for you, And you shall eat the herb of the field. In the sweat of your face you shall eat bread Till you return to the ground, For out of it you were taken; For dust you are, And to dust you shall return.”
 
As we can see Adams sin was putting His trust in woman before God.
 
With Eve her sin was to become like God; Genesis 3:5-6 NKJV “For God knows that in the day you eat of it
your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes,
and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate.
She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate.
 
So the curse; Your desire shall be for your husband, And he shall rule over you.”
 
However as the scriptures shows God will use a righteous woman, according to His Will, in a place of power, if her Faith is greater than man’s Faith.
 
One last thought, the reason Mary and the women were first at the tomb, is due to social and religious custom. The preparation of the dead was left to the women.
 
Also the husband ruling over the wife, is not a woman being submissive to a man. But the woman being submissive to God’s command, due to the curse of Eve, to be under Her husband’s counsel.
 
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